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An elegance coach has revealed the signs that women are dating a "low quality" guy and a "loser".
Anna Bey, who lives in Geneva, has more than 947,000 subscribers on YouTube, where she shares self-help videos for infiltrating high society, living a feminine lifestyle and having good etiquette in high-class settings.
After marrying her wealthy husband during lockdown, the School of Affluence founder decided to share tips of things to look out for when dating to avoid "losers" based on her own personal experiences.
One of the main things she warned women to watch out for is a guy that expects to go 50/50 in the relationship.
Anna said: "You're dating a loser, if he expects you to go 50/50 in the relationship with him or if he wants to split the bill with you.
"Society is not equal for men and women first of all. We are not 100% equal and we can never become equals simply because biologically we are not built equally.
"Men have a certain advantage biologically than women, where as women, we are the caretakers and the ones who carry the child. We might never have the equal opportunity to have the same career or earn the same amount of money."
She also said women have difference expenses from men, just as spending more to "keep ourself attractive and we're attractive because men want us to be attractive."
Anna added: "Women spend more on clothes, sanitary and beauty products than men. So if he wants to go 50/50 in the relationship that shows he doesn't want to step into the masculine role plus he is not a provider and might not even be generous."
The expert also said women are dating a "loser" if he makes you feel clingy for wanting commitment.
She said there are many men who make women feel like they are a psychopath for wanting devotion.
Other "low quality" traits include being flaky, ghosting you, vanishing or being unreliable.
Also on the list is lacking depth and having no interests instead of football, drinking and video games.
She also warned against men who don't have "basic gentleman's skills", such as holding the door for a woman and offering their jacket.
Finally, she warned women of manipulators, saying some men might start labelling women a gold-digger, b**** or materialistic, when they decide to start setting boundaries in the relationship to reclaim aspects that seem unfair.
She said: "I think it is a warning sign. If a man starts acting aggressively when you start setting fair boundaries, I think you need to be a little bit cautious with what you're dealing with."
Elegance coach Anna Bey, has told women they are signs to look out for that show they are dating a "low quality" guy and a "loser". These range from ghosting to manipulation